The Jealousy Game: The Solution

We are all born wanting to be accepted as we are. We are not born comparing ourselves to others. But somewhere along the lines, we begin to mark our value along the scale of what other women look like or how they perform. Unfortunately, in this generation, beauty = acceptance, and it beauty doesn't bring it, performance will.
However girls, if you truly wish to be accepted as you are, then it is up to you to do it. What if I told you that there is something--a force, if you will-- that allows us to be friends with everyone in the world, to make everyone like you, respect you as yourself, and you could be who you really want to be? You'd be like, "Alright, where do I get it?" Well, I'm going to show you. Did you know, if every girl that is alive right now opened up to each other and came together as one, helped each other through the tough times, were always there for each other, life would be virtually perfect? Okay, so it probably sounds a little cosmic. But it's worked for me, and it will work for all the others who are willing to try it. Listen now, I know you've heard it all before, the 'we can make difference' speech. But have you ever really took the time to think about it? Chances are, the answer is no. But before you move on, wait just a minute! We've all got busy lives; texting, friend dilemmas, crushes, and whatever else. But when I talk about making a difference, I don't mean the world. I mean You. And do you know why, girls? Because you can. You're young and special, even if you don't think so just yet. You can do it. Unlock the power. The power of GirlForce.

The Jealousy Game.

A lot of you have probably heard of this, as it happens to everyone, usually more than once. It occurs a lot with cliques or groups of girls. There's one leader, and the rest of the girls would follow her around and 'worship' her. Pretty Little Liars, The Clique and other books of that genre are very good examples of hard core friendships. Some of the other girls in the group might take the leader to be mean, or just dying for attention, but in general, the leader loves her friends just as much as anybody else. The leader is not a bully, she is simply a girl with a lot of self-confidence and because of this, she sometimes appears prettier or 'better' than the other girls in her group. This often leads to envy or even jealousy of the leader, which can destroys friendships between the girls.
First of all, let me just reassure you that it's happened to all of us. And if it hasn't yet, believe me, it will, and it won't be fun. I'm going to tell you how to recognize the problem and get to it before it gets you. Buckle up, girlies. You're in for a very bumpy ride!

Welcome to my new blog.

Hello, girls. Welcome to I Am Beautiful, a blog created to help you fight those bad hair days, grumpy moods, or whatever else is bothering you. This is a stress-free zone. I created this blog to help pave the road for all you girls who feel totally lost in life, or just need a simple pick-me-up. Remember the time when you looked in the mirror, and saw someone completely different staring back at you? You're not alone. That's why I'm here, to help you through all those little speed bumps on the road to growing up. And sure, you're probably reading this and thinking, 'This is stupid. This SO isn't going to work,' But really, all you have to do is Try it. You're going to feel a whole lot better.
Trust me.