Remember the friend that is what some of us call a frenemy? She was never really mean to you, but maybe she was annoying. Or maybe she used you. Either way, you probably don't like her much. You might even want to dump her, or bring up the nerve to tell her off. We already know that no one, not even the frenemy, likes being ditched. But there is a way to do that, without anyone getting hurt. Here's a few helpful tips to solve your friendship flaws;
#1: Say your friend is always late, you plan a meet with the girls at 5:00, but she shows up at 5:30. There's a half an hour of your life gone by waiting for her, never to return. When your friend does show up, she apologizes profusely for it, but she does it every time and you're not buying anymore.
SOLUTION: this time, tell your friend to arrive by 4:30, and she'll hopefully get there on time. If that still doesn't work, start the party without her. When she realizes her friends won't be waiting around for her, she'll most likely fix her schedule for the next get-together. Score one for both of you!
Look for more Friendship Flaws coming up soon!
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